Friday, May 11, 2012

Relationship Reflection

Relationships are very important to me because with out building a relationship with people then how would you know the amount of respect to give a person. I have a great relationship with God first and foremost, and this is from my religious standpoint. I also have a outstanding relationship with my husband, kids,family, coworkers, and friends. I value these relationships because without them then where would I be as a Christian, wife, mother, daughter, sister, friend or even coworker. The better the bond with the people I listed the smoother your life will become as you grow older and I realize that as a grew into the adult I am today. With each person my relationship became different. With my husband my relationship grew into an outstanding bond of communication and trust. With my children my relationship is excellent and I have that relationship of mommy loves me but she means business. With my mom,brother, grandmother, step dad, and other family they know I love them but I know my limit on what to say around them and who to trust. My professional relationship with my coworkers is great because we know how far to take it and what to expect at work and how to communicate on a business level. Also in order to maintain the relationship with each individual I have listed communication is a must and trust is a must and limitations definitely is a must. I feel like my occupation is a partnership because we are all considered on the same level. Some my make more than others, but at the end of the day we still are all human beings and deserve to be treated fairly. Some challenges would be  stumbling blocks as far as with family because you have your days when everything is not all good and that develops a block in your day or week or even year depending on what type of relationship has been developed and where you are trying to go with that relationship. These relationships impact my work or may not impact my work it depends on me as the individual and how far I take the relationship and what I want out of the relationship. I can only make or break myself at the end of the day.

me and my husband


some of my family my granddad RIP I loved him deeply and our bond relationship will never be broken and children














4 comments:

  1. Thank you so much for sharing pictures so personal! I agree with you about relationships, especially as a Christian to be motivated and encouraged throughout our daily walks is imperative.

    Are you started a new blog each week? or adding to your current blog with new posts?

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  2. Hi Shareva,

    Like you I am a chiristian woman who believes that this has made me become the caring, giving and loving person I am today. I give to my relationships the things that I desire in return. You have to be willing to put in the work it takes to enhance positive relationships with others.

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  3. Thank you for sharing your relationships with everyone via your blog. I like how you also commented about knowing how far you can take things or what you can say to certain family members. I agree that our relationships are different with each member of our family but it doesn't mean that we do not love those family members. For example I love my brother but given our 12 year age difference we are not that close and communication is typically limited to a few words or a sentence or two when we see one another although we do do better when it comes to texting- I guess that is one positive of technology. His youngest daughter attends the preschool where I work and one of my co-workers watched my brother and I interact one day and she said it was like seeing two acquaintances say hello on the street. I explained that that was how we interact but it doesn't mean that we do not love one another.

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  4. Hi Shereva,

    Thank you for sharing. I wanted to tell you spiritually trust and and respect can really make of break a relationship. I so agree with you on that one. You have very nice pictures of your family!And you are right sometimes if you are not feeling your best it can reflect your emotions and how you deal with your relationships/partnerships.

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